Leading by Example
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What you will learn
- 1Explain what it means to lead by example
- 2Describe how everyday actions influence the behavior of others
- 3Distinguish between leading by example and bossing others around
- 4Commit to a specific leading-by-example action
Mini Lesson
Leading by example means showing others how to behave through your own actions rather than telling them what to do. When you act with integrity, kindness, and responsibility, others notice and are often inspired to do the same. Your everyday choices send a message — make it a positive one.
What Leading by Example Looks Like
- Arriving on time and being prepared — it shows respect for everyone else.
- Admitting a mistake and fixing it — it shows courage and honesty.
- Including a newcomer — it creates a welcoming environment.
- Staying calm when things go wrong — it helps others stay calm too.
- Working hard even when no one is watching — it sets a standard.
The Ripple Effect of Your Actions
- One person picks up litter — others follow.
- One kid encourages a nervous teammate — confidence spreads.
- One team member arrives prepared — others feel motivated to do the same.
- Your actions create ripples that influence the people around you.
Leading by Example vs Being a Boss
- A leader says "Let's all try this" and does it themselves.
- A boss says "You should do this" but does not do it themselves.
- Leading by example earns respect; being a boss often creates resentment.
- You do not need a title or position — your actions lead.
Words to know
example
A person or action that others look at as a model to follow.
leadership
Using your influence and actions to guide and inspire others.
influence
The effect that one person's actions or words have on others' behavior.
action
Something you choose to do that others can see.
inspire
To motivate others by your own behavior, enthusiasm, or achievement.
model
To show or demonstrate a behavior so that others can observe and follow it.
Tip: You are always leading by example — whether you choose to or not. Every action you take sets a model for others. Choose your example wisely.
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