Show Digital Kindness
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What you will learn
- 1Tell the difference between kind and unkind online behavior
- 2Explain why the same kindness rules apply online as in real life
Mini Lesson
Would you walk up to a friend and say something mean to their face? Probably not! But sometimes people forget that the same rules apply when they are online. A screen does not change whether your words are kind or cruel — the other person still feels them just as strongly.
What is digital kindness?
- Digital kindness means being kind, respectful, and supportive when you talk to others online — in messages, chats, comments, or games.
- Example: Sending an encouraging message to a friend who is having a hard day.
- The golden rule applies online too: treat others the way you want to be treated.
Kind online behavior
- Send encouraging, supportive messages.
- Include others — do not leave people out of group chats.
- Think before you post with the T-K-N check: Is it True? Is it Kind? Is it Necessary?
- Stand up for someone being treated unkindly online, and tell a trusted adult.
Unkind online behavior (cyberbullying)
- Sending mean, hurtful, or mocking messages, or spreading rumors (unkind stories that may not be true).
- Sharing embarrassing photos or information about someone without their permission.
- Leaving someone out of a group chat on purpose.
- Saying things online you would never dare say in person.
Words to know
Digital kindness
Being kind, respectful, and supportive online
e.g. Sending an encouraging note is digital kindness.
Cyberbullying
Being mean or hurtful to someone using the internet
e.g. Cyberbullying is never okay.
Encourage
To say kind words that help someone keep going
e.g. I encourage my friends in our group chat.
Include
To make sure others are part of the group
e.g. I include everyone in the chat invite.
Golden rule
Treat others the way you want to be treated
e.g. The golden rule works online too.
Ask yourself: "Before I send this, would I be happy if someone sent me the exact same message?"
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