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Solving Conflicts Peacefully

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What you will learn

  • 1Explain what a conflict is
  • 2Describe the four steps to solve one peacefully
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Mini Lesson

Conflicts happen to everyone — even the best of friends disagree sometimes. What matters most is not whether a conflict happens, but how you solve it.

What is a conflict?

  • A conflict is a disagreement between two or more people.
  • Conflicts can be small — like arguing over which game to play — or bigger, like a serious argument.
  • Conflicts are a normal part of life. They are not the problem; how we handle them is what matters.

The 4 steps to solve a conflict peacefully

  • Step 1 — Calm down. Take a deep breath. You cannot think clearly when you are angry.
  • Step 2 — Talk and listen. Each person says how they feel using "I feel…" sentences. Then listen without interrupting.
  • Step 3 — Find a solution. Think of a way that is fair for everyone. Can you take turns? Share? Compromise?
  • Step 4 — Agree and move on. Both people agree to the solution and leave the conflict behind.

Why solve conflicts peacefully?

  • Arguing or fighting makes things worse and hurts relationships.
  • Peaceful solutions keep friendships strong and communities fair.
  • Using these steps shows self-control and respect for others.

Words to know

Conflict

A disagreement between two or more people

e.g. A conflict can happen with a friend.

Peacefully

Without anger or fighting

e.g. We solved the problem peacefully.

Compromise

When both people give up a little so the choice works for both

e.g. Our compromise was to take turns.

Solution

A way to fix a problem

e.g. We found a fair solution.

Listen

To hear what someone is saying without interrupting

e.g. I listen so I understand my friend.

The four steps to solve a conflict peacefully shown as a vertical flowchartFour numbered boxes connected by arrows: Step 1 Calm Down, Step 2 Talk and Listen, Step 3 Find a Solution, Step 4 Agree and Move On.Step 1Calm down — take a deep breath.Step 2Talk and listen — use "I feel…"Step 3Find a fair solution together.Step 4Agree and move on.
The four steps to peaceful conflict resolution — always in this order.
Two paths from a conflict: one leads to arguing and hurt feelings, the other leads to calm steps and peaceA fork in the road showing two choices after a conflict: the wrong path leads to arguing, the right path leads through the four steps to friendship.Conflict!Argue / fightMakes things worseHurt feelings,broken trustUse the stepsCalm, talk, solveFair solution,friendship keptChoose the peaceful path every time.
Every conflict gives you a choice — argue or use the four peaceful steps.
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Ask yourself: "What are the four steps? Which step do you think is the hardest, and why?"

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